THINGS TO DO IN KENT FOR COUPLES: 40 IDEAS FOR YOUR NEXT DAY OR NIGHT OUT IN KENT.
Before we started travelling full time, John and I both lived in Kent in the United Kingdom. This is still technically the county that we both call home and we continue to visit from time to time. Subsequently we know all the ins and outs and the best things to do in Kent for couples.
On our recent trip back to the UK, we were reminded exactly why we love Kent so much. It is a beautiful region of England, with bustling towns, beautiful countryside and lots of active things to do.
This is our guide to the best 40 things to do in Kent for couples. Whether you are visiting Kent, or living in Kent and looking for ideas for your next date – read on to find out more.
40 things to do in Kent for couples – a Map
We’ve put together a map of all our favourite things to do in Kent for couples. Use this map to tick off a few things in the same area and plan a great day out.
40 things to do in Kent for couples
Here are 40 amazing things to do in Kent for couples.
1/ The Lighthouse Champagne Bar in Folkestone
Folkestone is shedding off it’s old image and reinventing itself with Champagne and it’s famous lighthouse. Now visitors are sipping an ice cold glass of champagne whilst overlooking the ocean. This may not be the first image that comes to mind when you think about Folkestone.
On a recent visit, I was completely taken aback by the revamped Harbour Arm Folkestone. Get it on a sunny day, and you could easily be promenading in the Cote d’Azur, rather than Kent – perhaps this is why Folkestone is twinned with Boulogne-sur-Mer. What could be more romantic as something to do for couples in Kent than this?
The rest of the Harbour Arm is filled with street food stalls and a variety of other places to enjoy refreshment. Whilst in Folkestone, check out the Creative Quarter too – an area for artists & makers. A great place for nose for crafty bits & pieces.
🏙️Visiting from London?
Find more information on the Lighthouse Champagne Bar in Folkestone here.
2/ Visit a vineyard
Kent has around 50 vineyards at last count. Now, I haven’t visited every single one (just yet), but I can tell you that the ones I have visited are absolutely gorgeous.
For couples looking for things to do in Kent, visiting a vineyard is ideal. What could be more romantic as a date than sipping locally grown wine, surrounded by vineyards in the garden of England?
Whether you want to take a tour & tasting or just pop by to drink wine by the glass – there are plenty of choices in Kent.
My ultimate favourite vineyard in Kent when it comes to things to do in Kent for couples, is Hush Heath (Balfour Winery). There’s a huge terrace that is just spectacular in the summer, plus you can take a walk around the vines for free – and it’s dog friendly!
🏙️Visiting from London? If you’re coming from London, Hush Heath is handy on the train too – just take a direct train to Marden train station (less than one hour on the train). The vineyard will arrange a shuttle for you too if you contact them in advance. Alternatively, if you want to visit more than one vineyard, consider booking a guided tour.
Find our guide to Hush Heath and our other favourite vineyards in Kent here.
3/ Visit a tap room or brewery
Explore Kent’s vibrant brewery scene. There are many quirky tap rooms popping up around Kent.
One option is to visit Shepherd Neame in Faversham, Britain’s oldest brewery, for a tour and tasting. Northdown Brewery is also popular, with a very hipster vibe in Margate. My personal favourite is Westerham Brewery in West Kent (near Sevenoaks), a fun place which also sells Gluten Free Beers.
🏙️Visiting from London? Trains from London Victoria to Faversham take just over an hour so Shepherd Neame is a good option for you. Faversham is also a delightful town and worth a visit in it’s own right.
4/ Antique shopping in Hastings
Although technically in East Sussex, Hastings is close enough to warrant a visit. When you think about Hastings, you might think about arcade machines, mini-golf & fish and chips. It’s true that part of Hastings is that typical (slightly scruffy) British seaside town. But, the other part – the Old Town is a stark contrast.
The Old Town is filled with antique stores and artsy shops. My favourite store is A G Hendy & Co, a homeware turned hardware store. It is unassuming from the outside, but a delight once you’re in. Filled with trendy home items and vintage bits and bobs.
The Old Town has wonderful character, and if you’re not browsing stores, you’ll be able to take refuge in one of the trendy coffee shops or jaunty old pubs.
For something a little more educational, you can visit the Hastings Fisherman’s Museum – a small independent museum dedicated to all things maritime. You can also stop by Hastings Contemporary, an art gallery with regular exhibitions.
🏙️Visiting from London? Direct trains from London Charing Cross or London Bridge to Hastings make this an easy day trip.
Find our full guide to the best things to do in Hastings here.
5/ Beach walk in Hythe
Hythe is an upmarket seaside town in Kent. It has a long pebble beach, perfect for a romantic stroll. There are boutique stores to explore as well as some fantastic restaurants. The Hide & Fox was recently awarded a Michelin Star, or for a more laid back affair, try The Lazy Shack which is right on the beach.
Hythe is very close to Folkestone too, so if you have time you could tie in a visit to both towns.
🏙️Visiting from London?Just catch a train from London St Pancras to Folkestone, then a short bus ride to Hythe.
6/ Visit Chartwell and Westerham
Explore the home of Winston Churchill at Chartwell. Today, Chartwell is a National Trust property that you can visit. We recommend around 3 hours here to see the entire estate.
Afterwards, visit the quaint market town of Westerham. I recommend calling into Quercus Wines, where you can browse their unique store and sip a glass of wine looking out to the village green.
🏙️Visiting from London? Accessible by train to Sevenoaks, followed by a short bus journey.
7/ Enjoy lunch at The Sports Man in Seasalter
Seasalter is located just up the coast from the more well known Whitstable. It is my favourite spot in Kent for a beach walk, as it tends to be quite quiet and there’s a long stretch of beach to enjoy. Sometimes, you can also spot seals in the water.
After a walk on the beach, stop by the marvelous Sportsman Pub – a popular Michelin star venue. Be sure to book ahead to secure your table. They offer a five course tasting menu for £80. Or, if you visit mid-week, you can get a three course menu for £55. If you’d rather, you can normally grab a table outside for or in the conservatory for a drink without a reservation.
🏙️Visiting from London? Travel by train from London to Whitstable, then a taxi to Seasalter.
8/ Take a country walk
Kent offers countless walking trails through its scenic countryside. The North Downs Way provides spectacular views and accessible trails from various train stations along the route. But, there are lots of walks in whichever part of Kent you are in.
The website Explore Kent is a super resource to help you find the perfect walk for you. Some of my favourites are this Shipbourne Circular walk in West Kent, this 10 mile walk in Benenden and the Linear Walk from Hythe to Folkestone
9/ Cozy up in a countryside pub
My number one thing about being in Kent is getting cozy at a countryside pub. Visiting a pub has to be one of the most romantic things to do in Kent for couples.
Some of our favourite haunts to visit are The Woolpack Inn in Warehorne, The Rock in Chiddingstone, The Bottle House Inn in Penshurst and The Tiger Inn, Stowing. All of which have access to delightful walks, should you want to partake.
10/ Join a pub quiz
One of our favourite things to do when we are back in Kent is to head to a pub quiz. There are many throughout the county on different days of the week. One of our favourites is at The Guinea Pub in Tunbridge Wells, but there are many to choose from. Check the website Use Your Local to find a pub with a quiz near to you.
11/ Visit Tunbridge Wells
For couples seeking a blend of history and relaxation, Tunbridge Wells offers an enchanting getaway. Stroll hand-in-hand through the historic Pantiles, a Georgian colonnade where you can shop, dine, and enjoy live music. Look out for Jazz on the Pantiles events that take place throughout the summer.
One of the prettiest green spaces in Tunbridge Wells is Dunorlan Park with its beautiful lake and gardens. Cap off the day with a romantic dinner at one of the laid back eateries on Camden Road – Cantuccio makes excellent sourdough pizzas.
🏙️Visiting from London? Trains run frequently from London Charing Cross.
12/ Visit Canterbury and see the Cathedral
Canterbury, steeped in history and romance, is perfect for couples. Start your visit at the stunning Canterbury Cathedral, a UNESCO World Heritage Site with breathtaking architecture. Wander through the cobbled streets and explore the quaint boutiques and bookshops.
Take a leisurely punt along the River Stour for a unique view of the city’s medieval buildings and tranquil gardens. Enjoy an afternoon tea at one of the charming cafes. You can also book a walking tour of the city to learn more about the history.
🏙️Visiting from London? Trains from London to Canterbury are frequent, making this a convenient day trip.
13/ Eat Oysters in Whitstable
Whitstable is renowned for its oysters and laid-back quirky seaside charm, making it a must-visit for couples. Whenever I have time, I always visit Whitstable – a place that has fond memories as a young child. Stroll along the pebble beaches, browse the local art galleries, and sample fresh seafood straight from the boats.
The town’s picturesque harbor and colorful beach huts provide a quaint setting for a leisurely day out, topped off with a stunning sunset over the Thames Estuary.
The most famous restaurant in Whitstable is Wheelers Oyster Bar. It is a small place and it can be tricky to get in and is quite expensive. For a more casual affair, walk along the Harbour Market to nibble on some seafood, before grabbing a drink at the Old Neptune pub.
🏙️Visiting from London? Trains from London Victoria provide a direct route to this charming seaside town.
14/ Explore Hever Castle
Hever Castle offers a romantic backdrop steeped in history, perfect for couples visiting Kent.
Explore the childhood home of Anne Boleyn, wander through its stunning gardens featuring a romantic Italianate maze, and take a peaceful boat ride on the lake. The castle’s atmosphere brings Tudor history to life, making it an ideal destination for a day of exploration and photography.
🏙️Visiting from London? Trains to Edenbridge Town, then a short taxi ride, will get you there.
15/ Go to Port Lympne Safari Park
For animal-loving couples, Port Lympne Safari Park provides a unique adventure. Experience up-close encounters with exotic animals and even stay overnight in safari-style lodges.
The reserve’s conservation efforts add a meaningful layer to your visit, allowing you to support wildlife while enjoying unforgettable experiences.
🏙️Visiting from London? The nearest train station is Westernhanger, which is a direct train journey from London.
16/ Take a yoga class at Kingdom
Kingdom in Penshurst is an idyllic spot for yoga enthusiasts. Surrounded by tranquil woodland, their yoga classes offer a peaceful retreat from daily life, ideal for couples looking to relax and rejuvenate together in a stunning natural setting.
One of the things I love about Kingdom, is that you can spend a few hours there after your yoga class. There’s a short walk around the grounds and a lovely cafe serving up sweet treats.
17/ Take part in an outdoor bootcamp
Kent’s landscape offers the perfect setting for outdoor boot camp classes, combining fitness with the beauty of nature. These classes provide a rigorous workout in the fresh air of Kent’s parks and recreational areas, offering a fun and challenging way to stay active together. What could be more romantic than rolling around on a field together?!
Find more details at Bootcamp UK or British Military Fitness.
18/ Go geocaching
For adventurous couples, geocaching across Kent’s varied landscapes offers an exciting treasure hunt. This activity provides a fun way to explore hidden corners of the county, from coastal paths to historic villages, adding a sense of adventure to your outings.
Find out more information on the Kent Geocachers website.
19/ Relax at a spa hotel
Kent is home to several luxurious spa hotels, perfect for a romantic getaway. Indulge in spa treatments, relax in thermal pools, and enjoy fine dining in serene settings.
Hotels like the Rowhill Grange Hotel & Utopia Spa provide couples with an opulent escape, combining relaxation and romance.
20/ Visit Penshurst Place
Step back in time with a visit to Penshurst Place, an historic estate with stunning gardens and medieval architecture. Explore its grand rooms and stroll through the beautiful gardens. The estate also hosts various events throughout the year, providing a culturally enriching experience for couples.
Penshurst itself is a delightful village, with quaint pubs and countryside to explore. It has a train station, which is found a little way out of the village.
21/ Go Paddle Boarding
Since the pandemic, Paddle Boarding has become very popular sport in Kent. Experience the tranquility of Kent’s waterways with paddle boarding. Whether on the serene River Medway or along the scenic coast, paddle boarding is a fantastic way for couples to explore the natural beauty of the area while getting a fun workout.
For paddle events and socials, or lessons, check out The Paddle Cabin. A super outdoor paddle centre in West Kent.
22/ Cycle around Bewl Water
Bewl Water offers an exquisite setting for cycling enthusiasts. Circle the largest body of open water in the Southeast on a 12.5-mile route that boasts stunning views and varied terrain. Perfect for couples, this activity combines exercise with the opportunity for intimate conversations amidst natural beauty.
🏙️Visiting from London?Take a train from London Charing Cross to Wadhurst, which takes approximately 1 hour. From Wadhurst, Bewl Water is a short taxi ride away.
23/ Swim in a Tidal Pool in Margate
For a unique swimming experience, visit the Walpole Bay Tidal Pool or Margate Sands Tidal Pool in Margate. One of the UK’s oldest tidal pools, it offers safe swimming in a historic setting. Enjoy the expansive sea views while floating in the refreshing waters, making it a delightful outing for couples seeking a serene beach day.
Find out more about the best things to do in Margate here.
🏙️Visiting from London?Take a Southeastern train from London St Pancras International to Margate, which takes around 1 hour and 30 minutes. From Margate station, Walpole Bay is a short bus ride or a 30-minute walk.
24/ Explore the town of Deal
Deal is a charming seaside town that beckons with its rich maritime history and vibrant cultural scene. Wander along the quaint Deal Pier, explore historic Deal Castle, and browse through unique local shops.
The town’s laid-back atmosphere is perfect for a relaxing day trip. Enjoy a seafood lunch at 81 Beach Street, right on the shore of the sea.
You can find our detailed guide to visiting Deal here.
🏙️Visiting from London? Direct trains run from London St Pancras International to Deal and take about 1 hour and 30 minutes. This makes it a convenient option for a day trip.
25/ Stay overnight somewhere unique in Kent
Kent has many unique stays around the county. All of which are perfect for couples looking for a romantic break. Here are some of our top picks for unique overnight stays.
STAY IN A CASTLE IN KENT
Believe it or not, there is more than one option to stay in a Castle in Kent. The first, is Sissinghurst Castle Farmhouse. Although this is a private farmhouse, it is located within the grounds of the castle gardens.
If you want something even more grand, then Leeds Castle may be more up your street. Check out the accommodation here.
A COUNTRY PUB
What could be more idyllic on a cold winter weekend than an overnight stay in a luxury country pub? Try the Leicester Arms in beautiful Penshurst (pictured above), The Five Bells Inn in the village of Bradourne, or The Rose in Deal, which is a luxury hotel and restaurant.
RETREAT TO THE SEA
The Kent coast is alive and well, with quaint and quirky accommodation available in many of the most fashionable towns. Make the most if it and book a weekend retreat by the sea.
No. 42 by guesthouse Margate, is one such unique sea side stay (pictured above.) It has boutique bedrooms, perfect for couples, and could not be closer to the sea. A slightly less expensive alternative is The Botany Bay Hotel.
If you’d rather somewhere self catered by the sea, check out the cute as can be Yellow Door cottage in Whitstable.
UNPLUG COMPLETELY
If you’d rather get completely away from it all and try an unplugged holiday, then consider one of the cabins or yurts found around Kent.
This off grid cabin (pictured above) is located in farm land near to Canterbury. Meaning you can explore if you want to, or just totally switch off and relax in the luxurious space. If you’d rather something even more decadent, check out Quaives Glamping site – luxurious yurts in the countryside. Or, this Hobbit House with a hot tub near to Sheerness.
26/ Hike along the King Charles III Coastal Path in Kent
The King Charles III Coastal Path currently exists in five sections of the Kent coast. The sections open are Camber to Ramsgate, Ramgsate to Whitstable, Whistable to Iwade, Otterham Quay to Grain & Grain to Woolwich.
Pick a small stretch of the coastal path to enjoy with your partner when you visit Kent. More information can be found here.
27/ Work together at an Escape Room
For a thrilling indoor adventure, try an escape room experience in Kent, such as those offered by Escape Plan LIVE in Rochester and many others. These games challenge participants to solve puzzles and decode clues to escape from themed rooms within a set time. A great adventure with your partner in Kent.
28/ Try Life Drawing
Let your inner artist come to the fore with a life drawing class. The Kent Art Collective hosts weekly art classes, beginners welcome. The class is untaught, making it a little more fun.
29/ Visit Dover Castle
Dover Castle, known as the “Key to England,” is an iconic medieval fortress with a rich history dating back to the 11th century. Explore the labyrinthine war tunnels, medieval interiors, and enjoy panoramic views of the English Channel.
🏙️Visiting from London? Dover Castle is easily accessible by train from London St Pancras to Dover Priory, taking just over an hour. From the station, the castle is a short bus ride or a brisk walk uphill.
30/ Try your hand at golf
For golf enthusiasts, Kent offers several world-class courses. Royal St. George’s Golf Club in Sandwich is a highlight, having hosted multiple Open Championships. Its challenging links provide a memorable golfing experience.
If you’re new to the game and looking for something fun to do with your loved one in Kent, consider spending a few hours at one of the many driving ranges in the county.
31/ Play tennis
For locals looking for fun things to do in Kent – why not try a game of tennis with your significant other? There are many council run courts around Kent that you can spend an inexpensive few hours enjoying.
32/ Sail Away
Kent’s coastal towns like Whitstable and Herne Bay, along with Bewl Water, offer fantastic sailing opportunities. Whether you’re a beginner taking lessons or an experienced sailor, these waters provide a great setting. Make sailing one of the things you do in Kent as a couple this summer.
33/ Peruse a farmers market
The Kentish town of Faversham hosts a charming farmers’ market, known for its local produce and friendly vendors. Held on the first Saturday of each month, it’s a perfect spot to sample and buy fresh, local food.
🏙️Visiting from London? Take a direct train from London Victoria to Faversham, about 1 hour and 10 minutes. The market is a short walk from the station.
34/ Walk in a bluebell forest
Each spring, the bluebell forests of Kent, such as those in Dene Park & Hemsted Forest come alive with vibrant blues that create a magical woodland experience. The best time to visit is late March to April.
35/ Take a cooking class
Cooking classes can be a really fun way to spend a few hours. Kent has a number of great places to learn to cook, such as the Kent Cookery School. They offer a bread class, a Mexican cooking class and even a specialist couples cooking class.
36/ Watch village cricket
Experience the quintessentially British pastime of village cricket in locations like the picturesque villages of Chilham and Matfield. Matches are usually held on weekends and are a great way to engage with local traditions.
37/ Go gin tasting
Kent is home to several artisan distilleries where you can indulge in gin tasting and discover the intricacies of gin production. Anno Distillers in Marden is a standout, known for their innovative blends using local botanicals. During a visit, you can enjoy a guided tasting session and even blend your own gin.
🏙️Visiting from London? Take a train from London Bridge to Marden, a journey of about 50 minutes. From Marden Station, it’s a short taxi ride to the distillery.
38/ Board a steam train
Experience the romance of steam travel with a journey on the Kent and East Sussex Railway. Starting from Tenterden, this historic train chugs through the picturesque Rother Valley to Bodiam, providing stunning countryside views.
🏙️Visiting from London? Drive from London via the A21, which takes around 1.5 hours. Alternatively, take a train from London Bridge to Headcorn, then a taxi to Tenterden.
39/ Surf at Botany Bay
Botany Bay in Kent offers one of the best surfing experiences on the southeast coast of England, with its impressive chalk cliffs and sandy beach. Ideal for both beginners and experienced surfers, the bay provides consistent surf conditions.
🏙️Visiting from London? Catch a train from London St Pancras to Broadstairs, which takes about 1 hour and 20 minutes. From Broadstairs, Botany Bay is a short taxi ride or a pleasant walk away.
40/ Visit Ramsgate
Ramsgate is known for its maritime heritage and vibrant harbor area, filled with cafes and bars. Recently it has been named as one of UK’s “coolest towns.” Explore the Ramsgate Maritime Museum and enjoy the town’s sandy beaches.
🏙️Visiting from London?Trains run from London St Pancras to Ramsgate, taking about 1 hour and 15 minutes.
Written by Emma
Wine Lover. Yogi. Hiker. Writer.
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